Idle mind is the devils playgrounds

Loneliness is a disease. It’s a very common disease and can hit one at any time. Normally it comes at times of sorrow and despair. Its slowly eats you from inside and makes you weaker day after day. Some may think life is not longer worth living. Some excludes to a corner and most will succumb in silence.

There is no known medicine to cure it. But I tell you, this shit is truly curable. One can easily snap out of this and move along.

I recall a conversation with a friend. I related to him that we don’t have snow in Malaysia. I love cold weather and love to play in snow. He casually said, well you guys are lucky. Apparently in the countries that have cold winter, people die. My immediate thoughts were at the poor homeless people that freezes to death. Well, that is not the biggest killer. Boredom and loneliness is. He says, the suicide rates are always higher during snowy winter times. People are not able to go out, the singles are left lonely and the dogs can’t go out to shit. Some simply can’t take that and refuse to continue living.

We don’t have to go that far. We have heard stories of that Korean girl stuck under a collapsed shopping mall, rite. You haven’t heard? Ayoo, Well a girls survived after 17 days under the rubble. Just drinking rain water. The point is, your “will” must be strong to survive this cruel world.

As the famous quote goes, “nothing is permanent, even change will change”. And that is the cure we are talking about for the so called Loneliness disease. I tell you, you are lonely today, but tomorrow you will have a chance to change. So, change…

Get a routine or break from a routine. If you work everyday, you drive alone to work. You work, work and have lunch alone. You don’t talk to anyone because you have no mood. You finish work and you drive back to home. You get some food from the same stall near your house. You reach home, you eat, you shit, you bath, you watch tv and you sleep. If this is what you do everyday, then freeking hell. Break the routine.

Take up dancing class, call a long lost friend, go visit your relatives. Or better still, have a one night stand. Do something that is not in your routine. All these are the common first step stuff you need to do. Now, if these does not work. Do something extreme.

Go to bank, change RM100 in RM1 notes. Grab one of you closes friend, go to the busiest mall in your state. All malls will have something like an event hall. Go up the highest level and see the people below. I am sure they will be very bz doing their stuff. Now, take the RM 1 notes ( 100 piece) then just drop it!!!!! ……………….. Observe every single ringgit flying and see how people react to it!!!

After this, you will be a changed person! Now start Living. Do everything that you wanted to do, don’t hold back.

You only have one life and its too short to be lonely, sad, angry.. blab la…

…. Just Live Your Life ….